Talking and singing to your baby or young child strengthens the bond between parent and child and connects your lives as well as expands their brains. For babies without sight this sound connection is even more important.
Even if you weren’t actually singing to your baby before birth, your voice was still a large part of his first memories of being alive and aware. Talking and singing to your baby or young child strengthens the bond between parent and child and connects your lives as well as expands their brains. For babies without sight this sound connection is even more important.
If you like to sing and enjoy your voice, that’s great! Your baby will love to hear anything that you have to sing! Don’t discount even the simplest songs or soothing talk as important in communicating with your little one. If you don’t feel you have a glorious voice—don’t worry!—there will always be something special and unique in a loved one’s voice that reaches the deepest places in your child’s heart.
Try to sing, sing-speak, or even pick out music you like and sing along with it. Your child will respond to the care and attention, so feel comfortable experimenting with your baby as your own private audience. Just relax and have fun with it. You might be surprised at how good you sound!
FEEL THE BEAT
So now your baby is getting a regular dose of sound. Spoken words, musical tones, and sounds like dogs barking, birds singing, and cell phones ringing are awakening their ears and being catalogued in their young brains. At the same time, they have already developed a sense of rhythm.
Studies of young babies show that they can tell right away when a beat is missed in a pattern so they are keenly aware of the ebb and flow of sound around them. Remember, during the first nine months, the pattern of the human heartbeat served as deeply comforting music that became the soundtrack to their first months of life.
With that in mind, don’t discount the time you spend simply snuggling with your little one or comforting them by holding them close to your heart as a way to help them connect with the inner rhythms of their own being—not to mention relaxing them for naps or bedtime.
If you prefer something a little more elaborate, you may also want to play relaxing music from world music traditions as many of them are patterned after mom’s heartbeat. Along with adding some new musical flavors to your life, beautiful music can also serve to restore and renew moms, caregivers, and young infants giving everyone a much-needed rest.